You just don’t undertand Deborah Tannen writes about how people talk to each other. Very interesting. http://www.wnyc.org/story/how-female-friends-communicate/ https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B007OWRBL8&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_sSEgzbAWJ22G4